Siblings can’t decide what to do with the house and we are all fighting…now what?
This is a difficult situation since the approval of each sibling is required to submit even a value of the house to the court. Assuming this hurdle is cleared, then the house will be transferred to the siblings.
Fighting over the disposition of the house is not going to serve any of the siblings long-term. A discussion needs to begin with ideas each sibling has for the home, and then the discussion should focus on the pros and cons of each idea. If each sibling is reasonable, this could result in a solution that is satisfactory to each sibling. Often, people hold onto an idea without fully assessing its implications. If one sibling seems to be the major distraction, then this person’s issue needs to be discussed. They may have a problem with the other siblings that has not surfaced.
If reaching an agreement is not possible, then one of the siblings needs to be proactive and consult with an attorney about strategies that could resolve this problem. This is not to suggest that litigation is an appropriate step, because litigation is expensive and it would likely not result in a decision at all. However, a skilled attorney can manage a discussion about the implications of the deadlock. An attorney may have other ideas for resolving this problem that would not involve a hostile confrontation. This would include pointing out the legal implications of property with multiple owners.
It is more likely than not that this problem will be resolved over time because the heirs will have a chance to contemplate the issues that are impeding the disposition of the property. The discussion will never benefit from anger or hostile actions on the part of anyone.
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